I’m a hands-on, SAHM twin mama with a fuller-figure and gigantaboobs. I get covered in toddler messes every single day, because I won’t turn my children away when they need me – regardless of how sticky they are!
I LOVE rich jewel colours, and enjoy accessorising – but all my jewellery needs to be toddler-proof or it will get destroyed. Finally, I’m on a tight budget, since we’re a one-income family!
Seems like a tall order? Well fear not – if you’re in my position it is TOTALLY possible to craft a fabulous, minimalist capsule wardrobe… Continue reading Colourful Capsule Wardrobe for Curvaceous Mums
…when my twins fall asleep on me:
There’s something so intensely magical about the utter surrender, warmth and trust of my two softly slumbering children, snuggled up against me.
If I was a better woman perhaps I’d attempt to get more housework or cooking done whilst the children are sleeping, but I’m not: instead I snuggle and breathe them in, and sometimes nap too… Continue reading 10 Interesting Things That Make Me Happy
I’ve always been a woman of strong emotions. It’s what makes me me. It’s what my husband first loved about me – my ability to feel so deeply. My deep emotions are what allow me to have real empathy for others, and what sparks my creativity – be that music, poetry, or even blogging.
It’s what makes me a good mum.
But this capacity to feel so richly also comes at a cost. My ability to love deeply is balanced by a deep scope for pain. My tendency to examine my emotions can lead to bouts of introspection and depression if left unchecked.
My enthusiasm for new projects can lead to burnout and my tenacity can quickly become anger if thwarted. I have a strong desire to parent well, and a strong stress reaction if things seem to be going wrong… Continue reading How to Cope with Powerful Emotions: The 90 Second Rule
I remember very clearly the first time I came across the concept of Childism. It was a complete blow-your-mind moment. In the space of one beautifully written article, I went from being completely oblivious, to the startling realisation that not only was this prejudice rife in society, but I was a major culprit… Continue reading Spotlight On Childism: The Uncomfortable Truth About Mainstream Parenting
We are tired of books that only represent mainstream parenting methods such as punishment and rewards, or that only feature passive, silent or stereotyped women… Continue reading Character-Building Kids Books |‘I Can Do It Myself!’ by Stephen Krensky
If you’re on a journey pursing simplicity, you’ll likely already have explored Decluttering/Minimalism, Capsule Wardrobes, avoiding busyness and calm parenting styles such as Montessori or Gentle/Respectful parenting.
But what’s the next step?
I’ve been mulling-over ways to further simplify our lives. Clearly, the next stage after decluttering is to buy less clutter… Continue reading Simple Living: No Spend Challenge! (FREE Budget template)
There are mixed messages on what constitutes a capsule wardrobe, but in essence it’s about minimalism & coordination. You want to create a cohesive wardrobe that doesn’t include any excess, and yet makes you feel fabulous. You want items that can work in combination with each other, and create the feel of a signature style. Everything must be flattering, suitable for the chosen season’s climate and work with your lifestyle…
Continue reading Capsule Wardrobes for Messy Mums Part 2: Summer at Primark (Plus Size)
We’ve made it our mission to seek out the very best children’s books to fill our twins’ library. After all, children are deeply impressionable – their minds are sponges, soaking up influences from all around them. As parents, it’s up to us to provide resources that will nurture our little ones’ minds and personalities, embody the values we’d wish them to adopt and entertain and delight them to boot! The latter being arguably the most important, since a love of literacy opens the door to a bright and tolerant future… Continue reading Character-Building Kids Books | ‘Peck, Peck, Peck’ by Lucy Cousins
I love Gentle Parenting. I would consider myself a Gentle Parent. But man oh man is it tough sometimes. There are days when I literally feel like the worst parent in the world – that I am screwing up my kids and all of this effort is for nothing because, if I can’t be gentle 24/7, then surely they’re going to suffer the same detrimental effects as if I just subscribed to mainstream parenting… Continue reading When Gentle Parenting feels impossible | 15 Day-to-Day Coping Strategies
A couple of years back I had some friends who had a huge, beautiful house. They weren’t at all messy people, but as soon as they had kids, toys covered literally every surface… Continue reading Toy Rotation Sparks Elation! (12-15 Months: Week 1) | Simplify Your Home